I was feeling a bit challenged by honoring the Sabbath as strictly as "thou shall do NO work on Sabbath." It just seemed that Saturdays became so stressful because I was doing mad dashes to the basement for laundry and fretting if someone dropped something that needed to be vacuumed. I also realized that when your child had been waking up at 5am and that was rectified due to a clock radio that plays a simple CD at 7am, that a quick trip to Target to exchange the already broken clock/radio was not much of a choice--or a luxury. Yes, we violated the no shopping on the Sabbath law--or blue laws as they are known in New England.
So, Adam and I came up with another way of honoring the Sabbath, following old Jewish and Christian traditions. Of course, we worship together in the morning. In the evening, we planned on having a Sabbath supper. A nice meal, you see, where one of us would cook and the other would make a dessert with Elias. We would set the dining room table with family china. We would get out the wine glasses--and the wine. We would light candles and say prayers. And, we would enjoy a family meal celebrating God's presence in our midst. Here is what happened on our inaugural Sabbath supper.

We got a bit behind in the food preparation timing. The stove was piping hot when Elias and I entered the kitchen. We had to climb around Addie's highchair to get to the mixer and that left us no space to actually bake. So, we dropped the whole dessert expectation. The only person who was truly disappointed was Adam. Instead, we gathered the forks, knives,and spoons and had a lesson on setting the table. Eli helped me put the "heads up and the feet down." I got out the wine glasses and promised Elias his own big boy glass. We also put in two new bright blue candles. Soon it was time to sit down. Unfortunately, Elias fell backwards in his chair twice even before the meal began. He was too busy trying to adjust the silverware.

We commenced our meal with this wonderful Sabbath prayer from
Prayers for the Domestic Church. We got to the section in which we are invited to light the candles and remember the light of Christ when Elias burst into song singing "Happy Birthday" and purposefully looked for his Elmo cake. Once that rendition was over, we finished the prayers which involve praying over bread and wine. Of course, we had to give Eli a tad of wine in his cup. Before long, he was lifting his cup and offering "the cup of salvation."

Addie got in the act after prayers by putting the bowl on her head and dropping pasta all over the floor. She, too, was grabbing for the wine glass, but never got it.

By this time, Adam was having true second thoughts about Sabbath supper. I said it's a process. They'll get it eventually. He begged that we at least do it in the kitchen next week without candles, fine china, and pasta sauce on our Oriental rug. I'm still plugging to try it again next week. Although, I did spend 45 minutes cleaning up the mess we had made. By the way, it was a wonderful grilled eggplant parmesan. So, the food was good and the wine turned out to be essential!